women & their weakness~

know this & do realise this important fact:

no woman is ever strong enough to take on anything the world offers to her..no woman is strong enough to handle anything that goes wrong during the light of the day..no woman is ever able to receive rejection & heartbreak..& most important no woman is capable of being emotionally strong in any sense..

you might think im wrong to said this...but trust me..in this world there is no such thing as strong woman..they might be strong in any sense but in the end of the day she is still a she & she will still be a weak person that need protection from others..

this might make women seem so weak because im connecting women with weakness & of course tears..this might contradict with what i will post below this..but do realised this, if you ever knew a woman that able to endure all this, give more attention to her & love her more because she is doing what is seem impossible..comin off strong is harder than comin off weak..not many people able to do it.. i'm the example of the failure...

the most beautiful woman is those that hides tears with their smiles...

those are strong words..what people see is only the smile but behind the smile there is still tears..no matter how bright & wonderful is her smile, people tends to forget about the tears she hides..

tears are not evidence of their weakness but it is something to comfort them when they needed it the most & when the world is unable to offer her the comfort she needed the most...& when the world have seem to turn his back on her...tears is her weapon, her point to stay strong to continue whatever she is doing..tears is stick for helpin her to stand back to face the world when she fell down..

quoted a poem:

Women is the greatest creature by god
He has made her with lots of patience n thought

He has given her a charming face
Full of beauty n grace
To hold every pain behind it
Which is , even in sorrows always lit

Then god has given her a soothing touch
Which heels each of our wounds and cuts
Which pats our back when we r down on our knees
The love in the that touch can never cease

Women is also blessed with a beautiful smile
Which makes you so happy and gay
Like an enlightening ray

Then god thought
That there should be a way

For the women to convey her feelings

So, he decided to give her tears

Which takes away all her sorrows and pains
Which tells her to leave the past and move ahead
That’s is why her tears were shed

But silly man, wasn’t able to understand god
And had thought that- tears were here weak spot

Now who should him realize
That tears make her strong and rise

& found a story:

"Mom Why are you crying?"

"Why are you crying?" he asked his mom.
"Because I'm a woman" she told him.
"I don't understand," he said.
His mom just hugged him and said, "and you never
will"...

Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does
mother seem to cry for no reason?"

"All women cry for no reason," was all
his dad could say........

The little boy grew up and became a man,
still wondering why women cry...

Finally he put in a call to GOD; when GOD got on the
phone the man said, "GOD, why do women cry so
easily?"

GOD said.......
When I made women she had to be special. I made her
shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the
world; yet, gentle enough to give comfort....

I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and
the rejection that many times comes from her
children......

I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going
when everyone else gives up and take care of her
family through sickness and fatigue without
complaining......

I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under
any and all circumstances, even when her child has
hurt them very badly...

This same sensitivity helps her to make a child's
boo-boo feel better and shares in their teenagers
anxieties and fears.......

I gave her strength to carry her husband through his
faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his
heart.

I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never
hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and
her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.

I gave her a tear to shed, It's hers exclusively to
use whenever it is needed. It's her only
weakness....It's a tear for mankind.......

if you ever come across a woman battling to hold back tears, lend her shoulder, pat her back, give her the biggest hug you could offer & comfort her...tell her it is ok to cry as if tears can make everything ok though it is not...

if you ever feel annoyed because a woman is crying, dun be...because now you know the reason why woman cry...they were not born as strong as some do..be understanding provided that she is not crying over some small matters that is not a matter at all~~

and i promised i'll learn to come off strong too...of course skipping the tears part..because i will never let anyone ever see me tearing because it shows to the world that i'm weak too and i dun like it..and i do believe in the smiling part is more beautiful because people will never realised the tearing sound in your heart as long as they saw your brightly smile..